You may be confident about getting things done and sometimes this can be justified and sometimes not. Acknowledge the difficulties that do exist and don’t waste your time trying to solve what’s better left alone. Stay positive and work with others more – if things are not going according to plan their advice and support can help you to truly turn things around. It does not have to be you against the world, there is the potential to turn things around if you can think in new ways and stop feeling it’s all down to you. Allow working with others to help develop your creativity and inspiration.
You may feel impatient because progress is slow and you may want to bring in new ways of doing things. The courage to be yourself and to do things in your own way may be important to you but you may find you have to go with the flow more than you would like. You may be fearful of losing your authority, but stay positive, focus on keeping things simple, working with others and you may find ‘who dares wins’. You have the ability to size up a person or argument very quickly and accurately, but don’t be so sharp that you cut yourself. The greatest power of all is the power of love. So, despite your scepticism, try to be open to new ways of thinking and always remember that before you can inspire others, you have to be inspired yourself.
There is a danger that you put other people first and give so much that you have to fight to reclaim your independence. Don’t let the perfectionist side to you mean you feel you have to do everything yourself to ensure it is done ‘properly’. Learn to delegate without worrying. Working with others could help you to rediscover your passion and bring in new ways of working that help you to make your ideas a reality. Otherwise you may remain struggling to be independent and self-confident, perhaps feeling pulled in different directions.
You have lots of ideas and lots to say, but you may be very up and down with emotion. Try not to be so volatile and intense, you may be holding on too tightly to a structure and now may be the time to let go and trust. You like to do things in your own way, but value the importance of teamwork, friendship and laughter. If so, make time to smile and to take positive actions for yourself and others. Stay positive, grounded and focussed as much as possible. Try to be more patient and try to ensure the words don’t pour out of you. Know that endurance delivers and that one danger with impatience is that you may place your confidence with the wrong people.
There may be obstacles and lots of emotion, as you may want to get to the bottom things. If so, try to be grateful to the obstacles, as they may encourage you to stay focussed, grounded and potentially connected you with others in whole new ways. Obstacles may also encourage you to be more patient with regard to all you want to achieve and to be a bit more diplomatic in your approach. Always remember that to transform things you must first be inspired yourself and this can start with you seeing your great sensitivity as the great strength it is and using your true feelings to see clearly in all situations.
Try to stay inspired and in touch with the much bigger picture, spend no time comparing yourself to others and feeling you do not fit in and that you are not good enough. Your control is admirable, but so is spontaneity. Try to laugh at your foibles and faults, despite being the perfectionist, try to let go and trust. Focus on taking positive action rather than planning in detail and getting frustrated. Ideally loosen up and work with others more.
In wanting to keep things simple you may be quite rigid in your thinking, as you focus on the job at hand. You may have great breath of vision and the potential to inspire others to think in new ways, but this can only happen if you can allow yourself to go with the flow. You may feel great responsibility towards your work and may be determined to make your ideas a reality, but by staying so focussed you may have a knack for provoking others even though you truly care. Sometimes it may be a good idea to reserve your judgements, learn to stand aside and observe without expressing your opinion. Not everyone wants to be thinking in new ways and you may achieve a great deal more working as part of a team, focussing together on what is viable and practical.
The courage to truly be yourself may bring up lots of emotion for you, particularly if you must work with others more than you would like. There may be a lot going on in your head that find difficult to put into words but master your emotions and allow the breaking down of rigid mindsets and feelings to unfold naturally. Have faith in yourself and your ability to make your own rules and to survive the pressure to surrender your uniqueness to the crowd. Allow yourself a holiday or a break and enjoy the freedom that comes from truly loving who you are!
You cannot impose your beliefs on others but may feel sensitive and frustrated if your unconventional thinking is not appreciated. To get over this try to focus on the job in hand. Try not to put energy into pushing your feelings and your creativity down. Control the hurricane inside and guide its power constructively, stay focussed and grounded. Slow down and look at the whole picture, otherwise today may be a series of spurts and stops. Let go of the past, have faith in yourself and the universe.
You have your own way of doing things and can be very practical, as well as imaginative and idealistic. You may want to bring in new thinking and may feel very unsettled, particularly if you don’t like the way things are being done. We can all become prisoners of a set way of thinking and you may be more normal than you think. Follow your heart and try to see things as others do. Listen as well as speak and try to ensure the words don’t pour out of you. Your way of doing things is not the only way.