There is a danger that you put other people first and give so much that you have to fight to reclaim your independence. Don’t let the perfectionist side to you mean you feel you have to do everything yourself to ensure it is done ‘properly’. Learn to delegate without worrying. Working with others could help you to rediscover your passion and bring in new ways of working that help you to make your ideas a reality. Otherwise you may remain struggling to be independent and self-confident, perhaps feeling pulled in different directions.